For some people, the idea of phone sex has been always unwelcome and some even think of it as faking an orgasm. Nonetheless, for couples who are in a long distance relationship or for those who simply want to spice up their sex life, phone sex seems exciting and hot. With such, keep on reading and I will provide you with some tips on how to make your conversations hotter. By following these tips, it will be easy for you and your partner to have a pleasurable experience from both ends of the line.

Test the Waters First

Having phone sex means that you will talk dirty to each other while also masturbating. You will pretend as if you are actually having sex and doing the things you say to each other. To do this, both of you must be willing and must participate. To see if the other person is interested, try to send a dirty message through the text first. If you get a steamy reply this is an indication that both of you are on the same boat and can give you the green light.

Choose the Right Place

Once you decide to have phone sex, you need to find the right place where you can talk to each other over the phone and strip naked as the conversations get steamier. Your bedroom is going to be your safest bet. Make sure to choose a place that is private. No one would definitely want to be interrupted while in the middle of the action. Therefore, make sure you will be free from interruptions and you can do things freely, including moaning and getting naked.

Avoid Silence

There is always something awkward about silence, especially when you are having phone sex. At one point, you will run out of ideas on what to say, and hence, there could be dead air. This is a big no as this is going to significantly lessen the sexual tension. When you find yourself running out of naughty ideas, simply moan. This will do the trick and will make phone sex even hotter. Moan as if you are beside each other.

Be Turned On

Another important thing to do is to make sure you are in the right mood. Phone sex will not work if you are busy in the kitchen or if you are preoccupied with thoughts from work. Go to the bedroom or the bathtub, dim the lights and turn on some sensual music. Wear clothes that you would actually wear when you are having sex. By doing this, things will be more realistic and you can actually feel the intimacy.

Relax and Feel Good

At the end of the day, this is the most important tip that I can share when it comes to phone sex. Your goal is to gain mutual sexual satisfaction in spite of the distance between each other. Try to make it appear as natural as possible and not scripted. Be spontaneous and go with the flow. If you are asked to strip down, do it and savor the moment to achieve sexual gratification.